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Debra Messing Is ‘Tired’ of Women in Media Being Pitted Against Each Other (Exclusive)

Not here for it! Debra Messing is not a fan for those who pit women against each other — despite any reports about past feuds.

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“I think that it’s really — it’s just a cliché, the pitting women against each other, the [assumption] that women instinctively are competitive with one another,” Messing, 51, told Us Weekly exclusively while promoting her new Dear Media podcast, “The Dissenters” with Mandana Dayani. “I think it’s a trope.

Debra Messing Is Tired of Women in Media Being Pitted Against Each Other
Debra Messing attends the Roundabout Theatre Company’s Annual Gala at The Ziegfeld Ballroom in New York on March 2, 2020. MediaPunch/Shutterstock

She continued: “It’s tired, but also because if you acknowledge how powerful women are when they do what they do best — which is organizing and multitasking and working together toward fixing problems — then you have to acknowledge your power and I think that’s what ultimately scares people.”

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The former Smash star recently wrapped the final season of Will & Grace, in which there were rumors about an ongoing disagreement among costars. Following the April finale, creators Max Mutchnick shed light on the rumored tension on set, explaining it was about putting on a great finale for the fans more so than anything.

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Megan Mullally, Sean P. Hayes, Debra Messing and Eric McCormack on ‘Will & Grace.’ Moviestore/Shutterstock

Messing, for her part, is now focused on the podcast, in which she’s teaming up with the activist, 38, to highlight 20 heroes who have inspired them.

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“Mandana and I have been on our own activism journeys and I think with all the divisiveness and anxiety in our country of the last few years, Mandana and I have — in order to stay focused and inspired and activated — started sending each other articles constantly of people that just blew our mind with what they were doing or what they created or the ideas that they came up with,” Messing told Us about the partnership. “We just had this big cannon of incredible people!”

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Debra Messing and Mandana Dayani. Courtesy of Dear Media

The former Rachel Zoe Vice President added that the chats are extremely entertaining. “It’s equal parts fully fangirling and having fun and learning and having very human reactions,” she said. “It’s so crazy when you hear these incredible institutions and movements that these people have built.”

“The Dissenters,” produced by Dear Media, is available on Thursday, May 21.

With reporting by Carly Sloane

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